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A Few Things I Know For Sure

With John Patrick Adams
Tuesday, June 20, 2017 11:52 AM

Why Are You Begging Him/Her To....???

By: John Patrick Adams


I believe one of the hardest things for a single to do is accepting the one you want, don’t quite feel the same as you do…  I mean it’s crushing to know your own beauty, but have someone who doesn’t see nor desire it…  I mean you’re a great person, would be a great addition to their life, but for whatever reason they’ve decided to pass you by…  It hurts and trust me when I say, I understand…  I understand how it feels to want someone so badly, yet he/she doesn’t want you…  I understand how it feels to go out of your way to show someone you’re really into them, yet he/she acts like you don’t exist…  I understand completely how you’re feeling today because I’ve worn those shoes… 

 Many of you today are begging someone whom through actions have shown you either you’re not their type, they’re not interested in what you have to offer, or they’re just not into you…   You’re begging them to like you just as much as you like them…  You’re begging them to find you attractive, make the first move, initiate or express interest towards you, yet they do nothing…  Many of you are reading thinking, “I haven’t begged anyone” and boy are you lying to yourself…. You’re begging through your actions…  Begging by buying gifts for someone who doesn’t deserve them…  Begging by having sex with someone who shouldn’t have you…  Begging by going out of your way for someone who doesn’t give a damn if you’re okay…   Begging by wasting your time and energy on someone who gives you NOTHING....  You’re begging with your actions and lying with your mouths…

You're lying because you're making excuses for their behavior... You’re lying because you’re telling yourself you can handle just being friends….  You’re lying because you’re telling yourself “Oh, he’s a man…  Men don’t know how to express themselves…”…  You’re lying because you’re telling yourself, “You can’t please women…  They always want more”…  You’re lying because you’re telling yourself “She/He wants me to chase them…”…  You’re lying because you’re telling yourself you can’t find anyone better than the one you’re running behind… 

What I know for sure is…  At some point you gotta stop lying to yourself and admit, THEY JUST DON’T WANT YOU…  When a person wants to be with you, they’re going to show it…  When a person wants to be with you, they’re going to enjoy and desire being around you…  When a person wants to be with you, they’re going to do naturally what you’re begging them to do…  When a person wants to be with you, they’re going to come around when there’s no sex, gifts, food, or when they’re not just bored…  You should never beg anyone to love, want or desire you, so stop lying to yourself, wasting your money, time; energy and finally get the picture, THEY JUST DON’T WANT YOU…

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