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A Few Things I Know For Sure

With John Patrick Adams
Wednesday, April 26, 2017 12:43 PM

Now I See Why...

By: John Patrick Adams

 
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Have you ever met someone in which you believed their life was much different than what you thought it was???  You know like meeting someone who is physically gorgeous, yet they’re constantly struggling with keeping a relationship???  Or how about someone who on the surface appears to have their life together, yet they’re a complete and uttered mess??? Well here recently I met this lady who is simply beautiful…  I mean you can’t take your eyes off her, but she’s struggling with finding a man…

Looking at her you would think men are fighting to gain her attention, but she’s single and not by choice, but by action…  So what do you mean “by action” John???  Well thanks for asking… On the surface this woman is perfect for any man…  She’s beautiful, smart, physically fit, has a pretty good job, educated, and she has her own “change” in the bank… She’s independent, an amazing business woman and to top it off, she can throw down in the kitchen…  So with all of this going on, why is she single, right??? Well after talking with her for about an hour, the mask slowly began to peel off…  Listening to her, I understand exactly why she struggles...  SHE’S CRAZY AF…  Sometimes it doesn’t take a Rocket Scientist to understand when a person is crazy, all you have to do is listen and you’ll find out everything you need to know…

Some of you reading are this exact way…  Maybe you’re not crazy, but you’re thirsty; desperate; controlling; manipulative; or just plain out insecure af… You wonder why things crumble, why dudes never call you back after the first night; why women avoid your calls after the first conversation… Well it’s because they listen and realize the elevator doesn’t quite go up to the penthouse…  Now as funny as this may sound, have you ever gone out on a date with someone and you can hear your Momma’s voice saying, ‘Something ain’t right about them”???  You can hear it so clear, for a second you turn around to see if she’s there…  It’s amazing how our conscience which I wholeheartedly believe is led by God can warn us of danger…  Sadly to say, some of you don’t trust this voice and because of this, you constantly find yourselves in relationships destined for destruction from the very beginning….  But I digress…

What I know for sure is…  A “healthy” person recognizes a “toxic” person instantly…  It doesn’t take long for them to see some screws are missing…  So let me ask you, are you “healthy” or “toxic”?  Or you “independent” or “insecure”?  Or you “ready” or should you “wait”?  Until you get yourself right, you’re going to continue attracting and meeting the wrong people…  No matter how great of a person you may be on the outside or on paper, once you open your mouth, people will see and know exactly why you are single…

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