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A Few Things I Know For Sure

With John Patrick Adams
Wednesday, December 27, 2017 8:02 AM

HERstory

By: John Patrick Adams

In the history of every woman, there is a man…  Obviously there’s a father…  Possibly a brother, cousin, friend, boyfriend, husband or ex-husband…  Whichever role these men played in her life, each of them contributed to what she believes a man should be in her future….  Mentally she’s taken attributes and qualities of these men and created one… For some women the man they’ve created possesses all the great qualities of these men and when she encounters one who doesn’t, she quickly scratches him off the list and continues her pursuit of finding the man who doesn’t exist…  On the other hand, there is the woman who creates the one man who possess all the negative qualities of the men in her past…  Mentally and emotional she creates a man out of fear and every man she meets is either eliminated or turned off by her…

The history of a woman is something most men never seek to know…  Because of this, they’re clueless to her story…  You know the story of why she is the way she is???  Why her expectations are as high or low as they are… Why she’s so independent, driven, or passionate about her dreams…   HERstory is why she is the woman she is today and why she view men the way she does…  For some women HERstory is filled with experiences of abandonment, therefore they expect every man to walk out on them and never return…  There are women who watched their brothers cheat on their girlfriends and wives, therefore they believe they’ve mastered knowing what a man is capable of and when or how he’s doing it…  Then there are those women who have surrounded themselves in circles of male friends and have heard the stories of how they’ve used women to get what they want and as a result, she’s guarded with every man she meets to avoid being the woman in the conversation…

What I know for sure is…  Every woman has a history…  Her history creates HERstory…  If you ever want to know why a woman is the way she is, get to know her history and everything will be revealed…  The way a woman sees a man in her present and future is based on the men she’s seen in her past…


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