Friday, April 21, 2017 9:50 AM
Pieces Of The "Perfect One"By: John Patrick Adams
So yesterday I was chatting with a buddy of mine and he shared some things going on in his life… Outside of the normal hustle and bustle, I thought this guy had somewhat of a normal life, but boy was I surprised… He has an amazing job, he’s super intelligent; has a wife, kiddos, and a girlfriend… YUP, A GIRLFRIEND… Now he caught me off guard with this one, but hey no judgment here… As we continued to talk and he continued to share his journey, he said something that really stuck with me… “One person can never be your everything, so why make them your only?” Now whether or not I completely agree with this is irrelevant, that’s his truth and I appreciate the fact he’s found and living it… He believes what his wife lacks, his girlfriend packs… For him, he’s taking the best of them to make the perfect woman in his life… It’s almost like a puzzle, he’s combining pieces to make the masterpiece…
As ludicrous as this may sound, I believe the reason this stuck with me is because there is some truth to it… So let me ask those of you who are either married or currently in a relationship… Does the one you’re with check off everything on your list??? Be honest with yourself… Is there anything you would tweak about him/her??? Anything you want him/her to possess that they don’t??? Well I know there are some of you who believe your mate has everything you want, but does he/she view you the same??? PROBABLY NOT!!!! No matter how great of a catch we may believe we are, secretly in the back of the one we’re with, there is the desire for more or thoughts of wishing they could change one thing about or add one thing to us… It’s just how we are as humans, we always want more…
So where am I going with this??? Well I’m glad you asked… Now the second part of his quote, I don’t really agree with as much…. He’s correct when he says “one person can never be your everything” in regards to wants, but there are people who are equipped with everything we need… Some of us like to call them “Soul Mates” or “The Perfect One”, I like to call them “Heaven Sent”… You see this person is equipped to take us mentally, spiritually, and emotionally to places we’ve never been…. They’re able to hit the spot every time giving us a mental orgasm… They’re the one who knows what we’re thinking without speaking and in some cases able to finish our sentences before we do… With this person, looks don’t matter, because you’re aroused and stimulated mentally… Finances are important, but not a deal breaker because you see the potential the two of you can make as a “Power Couple”…. With this person, sexually it’s like no other because of the emotional and spiritual connection you share… So they may not be everything you want, but because they satisfy the need and hunger of your being, they’re everything you need therefore you make them your only…
What I know for sure is… One person can never be your everything, but there is one person who is everything you need…
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