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A Few Things I Know For Sure

With John Patrick Adams
Thursday, July 06, 2017 3:16 PM

WAYMENT, You Forgot Something!!!

By: John Patrick Adams

One thing I know from experience is when you’re done with someone, you don’t want them to leave anything behind… I mean no toothbrush, books, pens, pictures; clothes and if you could rid yourself of their memories, you would ask them to take those with them as well…   Custody of the pet wouldn’t be an issue because if the cost of completely getting rid of them is the dog/cat, “Bye Bye, he/she will take good care of you” would be your final words as Scruffy walks down the walkway of doom…  As I get older, games tend to sicken me more and more each day…  I don’t like all the going back and forth; “on today, off tomorrow” kind of stuff…  I’m like “Are you in it? Okay, let’s win it…  If not, deuces”…

 

I can remember when I used to get all bent out of shape when I was broken up with…  I mean I couldn’t function…  I would stop eating; constantly call, email (this was before text), do drive by’s and all that other foolishness you do when you’re on an emotional roller coaster…  I would beg and plead with someone who had made up their minds the relationship was something they no longer wanted…  I would buy gifts, apologize for things I wasn’t guilty of and go out of my way to win “One More Chance”… When I tell you I was weak, you better believe I was weak, but this was before I realized exactly who I am and what I bring to the table…  Nowadays, I’m not the guy to stick around…  I don’t do drama, pettiness, nor do I do stress…  I honestly try to live my life stress free and the first drop of “toxic” I see, I remove myself from the situation…  Be it a intimate, platonic or sadly say, a family relationship, YOU’Z GOT TO GO if you're not about moving forward in peace, a healthy state of mind, and passion for better…

 

Many of you are playing “Russian Roulette” with your sanity…  You’re spinning the cylinder waiting for the bullet which is someone who has told you not only through their words, but their actions they no longer want to be with you to come along and kill everything about you...  Just the other day I was having a conversation with a buddy of mine who is married to a woman who lacks respect for him…  In my book she committed the ultimate crime…  I think we can all deal with a little cheating, but ladies when you open your mouth and call your man a “BITCH”, you better duck and be ready to get the hell up out the house… She lacks respect for him and according to him, he’s done with her yet she’s still living in the house, eating his food, and running up his utility bills…

 

When you’re done with someone, their next move isn’t your concern… How they’re going to make it after you, isn’t your concern…  Where they’re going to live; how they’re going to eat and whether or not he/she is going to find someone to replace you isn’t your concern…  When you’re done with someone, you will pay for them to live somewhere else…  When you’re done with someone, you will create him/her an account on EHarmony, ChristianMingle, Black/Asian/Korean/Cacausian/TrumpSupporter/Single and all other DatingSites.com…  You won’t lose sleep over thoughts of who they're dating, entertaining, or sleeping with…  All you will be concerned with is him/her moving on and not leaving anything to return for… 

 

What I know for sure is…  When you’re done, you will know it…  Until then, stop playing games, wasting time and energy breaking up with someone you will find yourself right back with… However for those of you who are truly done, check around your place to see if there are any items he/she will eventually value and want to come by to pick up...   Once you've packed up everything, repeat after me, “WAYMENT, You forgot something” and this is when you close the door behind them, look around your empty place, thank God for your new found freedom and drink you a good ole stiff cocktail..  It’s independence day, let’s be free…

 

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