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Wednesday, November 08, 2017 9:41 AM

Tamar Braxton Breaks Her Silence And Pours Her Heart Out About What Broke Up Her Marriage

By: Monya Fleming

Tamar Braxton Breaks Her Silence And Pours Her Heart Out About What Broke Up Her Marriage
Tamar Braxton is finally speaking out on her divorce from Vince Herbert after nine years of marriage. The singer opened up in an Instagram post about the reasons behind their split, stating their marriage was for face value and hinting Vince had cheated.  

Fans may recall a woman coming forward in March of this year, claiming that Vince had a secret 7-year-old daughter with Herbert. The woman made the announcement on Instagram, sharing a photo of the alleged love child and calling him out for not paying child support.

Herbert's alleged baby mama posted a photo of the cute girl, writing in the caption, "This is me n Vincent Herbert 7 year old daughter!!!!! She will be 8 on June 28th!!!! He had a one night Stand with me the night before his wedding and paid me to keep quiet! Now he refuses to support his child anymore so I have to take matters to social media. tamarbraxton#PAYTHECHILDSUPPORTVINCE."

Tamar addressed the rumors at the time and denied the woman's claims. However, Braxton does mention in her open letter that she found things out online. She also brings up Vince having 'girlfriends.'

The singer wrote in her open letter, "Thank God this is HIS purpose..yes I just dropped #bluebirdofhappiness &Tamar &Vince is coming back on Thursday but on GOD this has NOTHING to do with ME or a JOB!!.here is the thing,& MY truth..you don’t have to like me & while I’m woke,I can see that most of you don’t now..even when you did.?something has changed w/her..but it’s ok, because I don’t..well,didn’t like me either. I told myself I would do whatever it took to keep my family together, to see a smile on someone who has seen us smile on their face hoping we could offer them hope,faith,Love & dignity that I once possessed. But the truth is all of those things are NOT within the marriage of Tamar & Vince????? ..at least not anymore. Married people who are reading will know what I mean. Sometimes we stay "married" for face value or to say 'we did it'??but the truth is..it couldn’t be more broken &further apart than we are NOW!..even on an anniversary!" 

The "Braxton Family Values" star then addresses finding things out online and suggests Vince was cheating on her. 

Tamar continues, "You can say he did this,she did that, I put up with "this" & I’ve suffered & endured "this"for so long..but the TRUTH is that this was your choice2 stay????? We get so caught up in WE are "winning"in love that we are LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us! I decided I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so. I wanted to have a relationship.Someone to share my/our dreams,our successes, our failures,our past,present & future with..& not finding out [expletive] online?????..some of us ?? have been have been living a LIE!..& sometimes when things R shared, what’s NOT being surfaced is that he has one or several girlfriends, or she’s never home,or he’s very general when he speaks,or “this doesn’t sound like him”? or he’s so busy lately!!.etc.etc..u have to think to yourself? When is enough enough?" 

She's glowing 😍✨ #tamarbraxton #BluebirdOfHappiness #SheCameBackHomeToUs #AlmostTourTime

Braxton then states that her husband would check her phone, while keeping his on him at all times. She also claims Herbert kicked her out of the house.

She continued, "Is it ok that he checks up on u when his phone(s) R stuck to him like glue? Is it ok that his friends are HIS friends but my friends are “our” friends? Or, we fight but that’s “passion”? let’s get deep for a second..we can argue & u can tell me to [expletive] out of “your” house when I’m the house of cards? None of this is ok..& while I’m not pushing anyone out of the door..I’m just telling you what has pushed me out of mine!That LAST time was the LAST time??"

It certainly sounds as if Tamar and Vince's marriage is beyond repair. Do you believe Vince cheated on her?

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